one of my favorite hobbies is to ask married
people how they knew they found the one and what’s important in a marriage.
this morning i got to talking about marriage with one of my coworkers, and he
told me something that resonated with me. he said you should strive to be with
someone who makes life better than you do on your own. pretty much be with
someone who doesn’t make you prefer being alone. i’m trying to catch all these
gems when they’re dropped and trust it made complete and total sense. later on
in the day, i was talking with another one of my coworkers. he just moved here
from indiana. i asked him what he was doing after work and he said he has to go buy a mattress for him and his wife. lowkey, i
think it’d be so dope to go mattress shopping with my wife (whoever and wherever she is), preferably after we
build our dream house. some thoughts are too lovely to explain, honestly.
though there’s a time and a place for everything, i must admit right now, i’m more than content sleeping alone rather than with somebody next to me.
maybe one day, though.
-ratha, 9:20pm, 8.26.21