last month my auntie passed away. earlier this month, my dad’s uncle passed away. the funeral is in california. if i remember correctly, this is the uncle who conveyed how integral academics are to success. he’s one of the main reasons my dad is who he is today. from refugee camp to phd, my dad’s uncle was a big influence on his journey, at least the early parts. i remember when my cousin got married in california during the late 2000’s, my dad took me away from the festivities specifically for me to meet him outside. i don’t remember what was said between us, but i remember how important my dad’s uncle was to him from that gesture. i just know my dad’s uncle is so proud of him, as we all are. there really is nothing to say to make someone feel better or grieve easier from a loss. all i can do is pray for him and let him know i’m here for him.
it’s been a rough start to the spring, but i know summer will bring some good times to the family and i’m looking forward to it.
-ratha, 10:32am, 4.20.23